The Ghetto State of Mind

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                     The Ghetto State of Mind  The Ghetto state of mind is an intriguing concept. In my hometown this mind set is on an upscale. It has always been there but in the last 5 years its grown rampantly like wildfire. The ghetto state of mind comes in all colors and nationalities. You can identify it by how someone carries themselves and by their words and actions and how they treat others.   Let us explore this unaesthetic mind set.  This mind set is at one of the lowest mindsets. In this mindset the person always has to be right, always gets their way. Putting their needs first is always on their agenda. Some examples are screaming and honking at an elderly to cross the street as opposed to a more noble mindset of going out of your way to help an elderly person cross the street. This mindset is also displayed by not letting people merge on the highway knowing that now they will now have to exit. In some states not merging is against the law but it is just human decency tha

How to not come off as being "Thirsty"

                          How to not come off as being

                                          "Thirsty"






    What is "thirsty"? It a term used to describe someone in the dating world, as essentially being desperate. Here are some tops tips to not appear "thirsty".These tips are for people not in a established relationship but trying to start one in the beginning stages.





1.  Do not double text or triple text someone back. If someone texts you, do not respond with 3 texts or texts back to back. Text back and forth like throwing a ball back and forth. 

2.  Especially in the beginning of a possible new relationship, do not send overly romantic emojis like roses and kissy faces. It sends the message that you are definitely Thirsty!

3.  Do not blow up someone phone. This goes back to rule number 1, but also includes calling the person several times a day and you barely know the person. Let relationships develop at their own pace. This behavior does not match someone that you barely know. 


4. Do not send overly romantic messages in the beginning. They seem unauthentic and that you will send these messages to everyone and anyone. People want you to get to know them first before appreciating romantic messages. That goes for calling people petnames like sparkles and sweety. This is fine for people that have agreed to be in a relationship but it's going to leave a sour taste in the other person's mouth if you are not even sure were the person stands in wanting a relationship with you.

5. If you ask for a date and the person says they are busy, respect someones boundaries and stop begging. Never make a person feel like you they are feeling pressured. Respect their "No".

6. Don't appear to be so eager. It is a turn off and makes you unattractive even if you are physically attractive.
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7. Do not use a selfie of you in the bathroom with out a shirt on and use it for your online dating profile picture or send it to someone you are interested in dating. Thristy and tacky!

8. Most important tip, Hydrate,hydrate,hydrate! The reason people are thirsty is because they really are desperate and need to quench their thirst. It is like going grocery shopping when you are hungry and buying everything in the store. Make sure you fill yourself up so that you don't do around displaying yourself as a hungry or thirsty person. You get your elecotryle water by soaking up the word of God. You can consume you gaydrode by hobbies you are good at by doing things to feed your soul. Have some coconut water and work on you builing your idenity in Christ. Then when you are filled you will come off radiant instead of being Thirsty!




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